i have been out of town ....on a fabulous trip with my mr.e.beck.artist ......i've never called him that before ... but i'm thinking it might stick ......
here's a cute story about him .... i was sitting at a poolside/beachside/sunnyside restaurant in cancun mexico with five friends .... we were well into our second hour of a long leisurely lunch .... when we saw mr.e.beck.artist, back from a golf outing, walking around the pool looking for meeeeee ..... each of us called him in turn.... his name....whistles .... and he never looked up .... then i yelled ...hey, cute boy .... and he looked right up at me ..... cute mr.e.beck.artist was there as the third hour of my lovely sunny lunch drifted by ......he answers to cute boy .... i like that .... very good thing he doesn't read my blog, huh?
so....i'm back ....and happy ... the happy bit isn't new ...i'm usually happy .... i daresay i'm happier than most people .... nothing i do special ... i think it's just the way i'm made .... but, i'm happy to be home to my sweet children .... and my dog .... when i saw each child come out to greet us while we were getting things out of our car, my heart gave a little squeeze ...hooray! all safe and sound .... and then? i saw so carrying the dog ... and i NEVER missed the dog while i was away!!! what's up with that ... last week when we were on spring break i missed the dog a ton .... thought about her often ..... but nope, not this time .... sadly, i think i was just too busy dancing in cancun to miss her .... sorry, little dog!
so, before i left on my trip ... i was on an icelandic (i think? ) blog ... that i can't find now!!! and the blogger was writing down 100 things that made her happy .... and she had 87 ..... and it got me wondering ....if every person on the planet had to write down 100 things that made them happy, would they all be different .... or even five things ..... like, flip flops, singing along to 80s music, guacamole, australians, and beaches .... those are five happies about my weekend ..... wouldn't everyone on my trip write a different happy list even though we were all on the same trip ....
so, it's kind of like dna .... a defining list .... that's uniquely YOU ..... when i made my list of 100.... i had 187 .... so then i had to add 188, not following directions.... and today....as i started to post ... i added australians ... cause i spent a good amount of time with australians this weekend ......are all australians so fun? i sure hope so ..... that's a nice idea, a whole country full of funny and happy ...... anyway.... here's my list... my dna of happiness .... it's already changed since i wrote this a week ago .... i could delete a couple .... add about 50 more..... but ... for now .... here it is ......
My happy 100
- my family
- living in a white picket fence house with my favorite people
- my tiny dog (her size is part of why I love her so)
- walking the dog
- dog dancing for treats
- bagels
- art days with Allison (these are not in any order, I love Allison more than bagels)
- my pals…especially d, c, a, t, m
- tennis
- the sound of new tennis balls being opened
- clogs
- sneakers
- boots
- orange shoes (especially clogs, sneakers and boots)
- messy paint days
- fresh new paint brushes
- reading the paper in the morning
- letting my kids read the comics first
- reading
- book club
- staying really late at book club
- carpooling
- bananas
- grapes
- watermelon
- oatmeal raisin cookies
- my lovely husband liking to cook
- dinner not cooked by me
- my little boy saying, can I make dinner?
- my littlest girls saying, can I make cookies?
- my big girl not really caring about being in the kitchen, just like me
- summer vacation
- road trips
- travel journals
- family journals
- bags of journaling goodies
- sharpies
- buttons
- new glue sticks
- new socks
- new tshirts
- old sweats
- andy’s gym shorts (on me)
- rain
- rainbows
- rainboots
- my three children in raincoats and rainboots walking to school because I’m militant about walking
- holding my little one's hand when I walk her to school
- playgrounds
- swings
- creeks
- tadpoles
- fishtanks
- going to aquariums
- snorkeling
- turtles
- zoos
- elephants
- green
- big ole’ gaudy rings
- ladybird pendants
- silver earrings
- roses
- sunflowers
- gerbera daisies
- daffodils
- poppies ( I could have conserved numbers if I’d just said flowers, but there are a few I’m not partial to)
- Mona Lisa
- Leonardo DaVinci
- Matisse
- Van Gogh
- Cubism
- Andy Warhol
- dinner parties
- swimming pools
- the beach
- nieces and nephews
- new babies
- pillows
- flashlights
- bungee cords
- bike rides
- watching my children play sports
- driving golf carts
- keys
- games (I could take up 20 numbers here listing my favorites …. I could maybe even do a top 100 game list.)
- taking the kids to the grandparents
- my happy childhood memories
- very nice brothers
- planning ahead for my 20th anniversary celebration
- giving gifts
- homemade gifts
- watching tv in the evenings (I could fill up a dozen spots with favorite shows.)
- Time magazine
- Sports Illustrated
- Cloth, Paper, Scissors
- Lego
- Dolls
- Children’s books
- Folk art
- Art Fairs
- Elton John
- Cheryl Crowe
- John Denver (since I was 10, sorry)
- Jimmy Buffett
- 80s music
- Dancing with my husband
- Front porches
- Porch swings
- Hard wood floors
- Air conditioning
- My church
- My women’s group
- Kanuga
- Teaching children
- Sunday school
- Telling stories
- 20/20 vision
- cool sunglasses
- soccer
- sharpies
- skates
- footstools
- poptarts
- twizzlers
- edamame (how did this not get mentioned til way down here?)
- mr. potato head
- Kevin Costner in Dances with Wolves
- Kevin Bacon in Footloose
- Going for walks with someone
- Blue nail polish
- Pedicures
- Mexican restaurants
- Museums
- Family memberships
- Christmas
- Seafood
- Sandcastles
- Fishing
- Nets
- Boats
- My husband in a row boat (he's not a skilled boat dude)
- My camera
- My computer
- Flickr
- Blogs
- Twins Loop
- Pottery
- The Alphabet
- Angels
- Framed family photos
- Children laughing
- Knock knock jokes
- Monkey Ball
- Webkins Cash Cow
- e.e. cummings
- shel silverstein
- ribbons
- bingo cards
- bottle caps
- bells
- reliable, roomy cars
- ok, my mini van
- sunsets
- full moons
- seashells
- seahorses
- mickey mouse
- tinkerbell
- dopey
- chapstick
- cloth napkins
- diet coke (OH! Now you know it isn’t in any particular order!)
- root beer
- gingerale
- spearmint
- wintergreen
- butterscotch
- taking a class
- writing
- lists (ha, I’m thinking of my to do list, but this is certainly a grand list to not make a showing til 181!)
- art books
- apple mango tango detergent (mark taught me about that)
- corn chowder (thanks dave)
- backpacks
- colorful bandaids
- hearts
- not following directions
- people from australia
....so there you go..... my happy list ....
feel free to make your own ... tell me if you do .... i'll add a link to it ... i'd love to see your happy dna ..... or .... if you don't have a blog ...or don't want to do your own humongo list, just leave five happies in the comments .... by all means, share your happy!
and... speaking of happiness .... if you haven't joined my contest, please do .... deadline, march 22 ..... stick a link to it in your own blog if you want ... the more the merrier of course ....
happiness to you and yours ... tomorrow, once i unpack a bit, i will definitely do art and post art ... see you then .....
and... now weeks later .... donna at mice and moonbeams has made her own happy 100.....
another late edit ... i found the blogger who wrote the list that inspired mine....go to soul glo ...
up to the minute info: 3rd eye muse made a happy 100 list .....